How to swing. Casual sex tips for "new" couples & singles who want to swing.So you want to get into the swingers lifestyle. Would you like to become a swinger? What did you do about it? Apparently lately some people have problem with the word swing, swinging, swingers. They don't want to be called swingers, but they are on the hunt all the time for casual sex partners to have one night stand with them. If you can put yourself into any of the above name's group, than you should read this page. You will find useful information here. You do not need long lasting relationship, you are looking for sex only. There is nothing wrong with that. You are not along, there are a lot of men, women and couples looking for no commitment sex partners only. If you really want something and you do something about it, sooner or later you will succeed. Since the internet become popular, easy to find horny women, well hung men or horny couple in almost every neighbourhood, including your city too. If you do not believe me, check out those erotic profiles at next.
You've browsed the internet for no commitment sex personals. Contacted people, exchanged photos and you think you have find a great couple or few competitive singles. What do you should do now? How can you have sex with them? You should feel like you are a teenager again and you just start to dating. You need to impress your new dating partner or partners. Before you jump into anything crazy, you should know few things... Setting up a meeting in a non-pressure environment is the best place to begin. Non - pressure stand for public place, something like a classy restaurant or a coffee shop. You should not meet in a swingers club, or in a strip bar. These places too erotic, too sex oriented and they are not the greatest place to have the first meeting. You should talk with your new friends in pressure free normal setting, to find out what they are exactly looking for and what they want from this new casual friendship. Also you should let them know what you are looking for. Being honest is important even in casual sex relationship. You should choose a quiet place (no loud music) where you can to talk openly. How should you dress Men should wear dress pants, nice shirt and dress shoes. Remember, you want to impress. Jacket or tie is not necessary, unless the restaurant have dress code. Women need to impress too. Ladies should be as sexy as possible. Should not be afraid to show some skin without looking like a professional sex business worker. But it depends on you meeting place. You want to look like everyone else in that restaurant or bar. I hope I don't have to say that you should take showers, shave, trim and wear a little solid perfume. Ladies should put on a nice makeup and minimal amount of jewellery. Arrive on time. | |
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So you are there All of you sat down and start to talk. Should order some drinks and should talk about everyday things, families, job, movies etc. Any subject might do at this time, you just need to see how can you and your new "friends" communicate. If they are or you are sitting in silence, then it might not be a good sign for a no commitment sexual relationship. You don't need to be a genius to figure it out, if nobody say a word, than something is wrong. Watch you alcohol "intake. Alcohol might make you say things, that you should not say. You should generally be able to see if this erotic lifestyle and your new dating partner is for you. You should feel like they are your old friend, and or you should find your new dating partner(s) attractive. Some swingers call this "Chemistry".If the Chemistry is there... What is that chemistry anyway? |
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The Chemistry |
If you have browsed swingers ads, you probably have already realized that a lot of people looking for friendship with erotic benefits. They wrote: "We are looking for friendship and if the chemistry is there, maybe more". Most of the swingers, males, females, married, singles or divorced see chemical attraction as a necessary something to have a passionate, intimate time, and sex with somebody. So once again what exactly is chemistry? Some swingers think this kind of chemistry is so mysterious something, that cannot be defined. If the chemistry is not there, nothing will happen. And on the other hand, if the chemistry is there you will feel it instantly when you see a woman or man. You will think: "Wow, we can have a lot of fun together". This happens because our brain produces chemicals if we feel sexual attraction to the person. These naturally produced chemicals make us feel horny and will keep us sexually aroused for a shorter or longer period of time. With out chemistry it is hard to have quality casual sex. However anyone might try to develop that chemistry. How? It is very simple. You have to get to know each other. Find out the other person's dream or erotic fantasy and the chemistry might develop. For experienced swingers it takes just a few hours, new bies need more time. However if you cannot develop that chemistry, you should not waste your time. You should try to find somebody else. To build that chemistry you should feel good about each other and if you you want to make the next step, you should to start talking about it. Talk about what you want in a no commitment sexual relationship and see where the conversation goes. You should talk about your rules and should ask your new friend's rule for example, same room fun, safe sex, etc. You should not be shine, you should know what you expect from your new friends, and they should know what you would like to put into this new erotic, swinging relationship. When I wrote what you would like to into this relationship, your penis wasn't in my mind... If everything works out fine, you might go to a hotel room with your new friend(s) or set up a other meeting. One more thing You should be prepared for any situation. You should have few condoms in your packet or in your purse and or a hand bag in your car with soap, toothpaste, perfume, clean underwear, etc. in. Never know when you going to need them... One Way Or The other You Will Learn Everything About SexSome people think I am out of my mind, some others believe we are talking about sex too much. When the time comes you will learn it on your own and you will know what to do, when you need to do. You might get pregnant or might pick up some nasty disease in the process of learning, but at the end you will know it, where you have made mistake and you will know it what you should do differently. Life has taught you the hard way. Shouldn't we learn first and then practice like anything else in the life, before we get active? Why is that, in our modern world sex is still taboo? But I strongly believe, nobody should learn anything the hard way. Everyone should know what to do and how to do it, before they do it. If you think I am right please visit the Love Centria's Sex Guide. You can learn everything there what you should know about sex. You will find there secrets on how to become a great lover. These secrets are revealed in the biggest unique sex guide available anywhere on the internet. Honestly this massive guide contains everything possibly available on sex. Do not just take my word for it, see what the industry and others have said about it. Click here and check it out for yourself!
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